In the end, love isn't about the physical appearance, who looks better with who, what she's got on, and how many abs he's got under his shirt. It shouldn't be about neglecting your life and everyone in it before he came around, it shouldn't be about losing your priorities and dignity, giving up your pride. Love is understanding each others backgrounds, being there for someone when you don't have to, staying up for the other even if you gotta get up early the next day, its about laughing and taking care of each others heart, not walking away the second things aren't perfect like they seem to be in the movies, because truth of the matter is, if you work at something, and do it together, push each others limits and love harder, it's better than the movies, and it feels better too.